* Updated RpcServer Initialization and Logic
-- Moved all RPCServer initialization logic to rpcserver constructor
-- Fixed config logic, fxn binding to rpc address, fxn adding rpc cats
-- router hive failed CI/CD resulting from outdated reference to rpcBindAddr
-- ipc socket as default hidden from windows (for now)
* bump zmq static dep
* lokimq -> oxenmq
* llarp_nodedb -> llarp::NodeDB
* remove all crufty api parts of NodeDB
* make NodeDB rc selection api not suck
* make path builder api not suck
* propagate all above changes so that unit tests work and it all compiles